Forage & Gather - Setting Boundaries and Making Time for what really Matters!
“I meant to do my work today—
But a brown bird sang in the apple tree,
And a butterfly flitted across the field,
And all the leaves were calling me.
And the wind went sighing over the land,
Tossing the grasses to and fro,
And a rainbow held out its shining hand—
So what could I do but laugh and go?”
Richard Le Gallienne (1866 - 1947)
As we step into Monday and the beginning of a heartwarming holiday week, let's take a moment to draw inspiration, remembering to relax, breathe, and focus on what truly matters in your heart. We find ourselves in a world constantly evolving, filled with transitions and uncertainties. In times like these, the wisdom of embracing change becomes our guiding light. Truly, what other choice do we have? Our world is transforming, from climate shifts to global conflicts, and the complexities of our political landscape at home add to the whirlwind of daily responsibilities.
In such times, I return to what I know best: securing the homestead and keeping my spirit anchored in the simple, nourishing comforts of life. Let’s cherish the small joys—a soothing cup of tea and a warm bath or losing ourselves in the pages of a good book, a rejuvenating walk in the woods, or a deep, calming breath. These are the moments that build our emotional resilience and bring us back to ourselves. Let's hold these small, precious practices close as we navigate the ever-changing tides around us.
These small and familiar rituals are not just acts of self-care; they are acts of defiance against the chaos, a way to steady our souls amid the storms. Let’s remember that nurturing our inner peace creates a sanctuary from which we can face the challenges of the outside world with grace and courage. As we gather with our family and friends this holiday week, let’s make time to rest and connect deeply, share stories, and create memories that fortify our bonds. These connections are vital threads in the fabric of our lives, providing strength and support when we most need it.
So, as we embrace this holiday, let's also embrace each other and the beauty of our everyday lives. Cook a meal together, watch the sunrise, engage in meaningful conversations—these are the touchstones that remind us of who we are and what truly enriches our lives. In these shared moments, we can find the enduring magic that sustains us through any tumultuous period. Cherish and cultivate these connections, for they are our truest anchors in a quickly shifting world.
In these bustling times, it is also essential to prioritize doing what really matters, a choice that is deeply personal and unique to each of us. Recognize the activities and relationships that replenish your soul and give you a sense of purpose, and give yourself permission to focus on these. This might mean setting aside less crucial tasks or learning to say no to demands that drain your energy. Drawing kind, personal boundaries is not just about protecting your time; it’s about honoring your spirit and dedicating yourself to what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. It may sound cliche, but in times like these, it’s always important to remember to put your oxygen mask on first!
As we navigate our commitments and interactions, let's remember that setting these boundaries is a vital act of self-care. It allows us to manage our energy wisely, ensuring we can fully engage with life in ways that are meaningful and rejuvenating. By clearly understanding and asserting our limits, we cultivate a life that feels balanced and aligned with our deepest values. Let's embrace the practice of setting boundaries with compassion and clarity, making space for the pursuits and people that matter most. This commitment to our personal well-being enables us to contribute to the world around us with more heart and presence, enriching not just our own lives but also those of others.
I hope that you have a wonderfully rich week!
Great words to live by!💖